Following Your Intuition This Holiday Season: An Emotionally Secure Guide for Each Enneagram Type
- Ashlee Kelly
- Dec 8, 2024
- 3 min read
The holidays are a time to reconnect—with loved ones, traditions, and perhaps most importantly, yourself. When each Enneagram type approaches the season from an emotionally secure place, they can navigate the holidays with joy and authenticity. Here’s how each type can follow their intuition with specific examples:
Type 1: The Perfectionist
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition reminds you that imperfections add charm to the season. Let go of rigid standards and focus on connection.
Example: Instead of stressing over the perfectly set table, embrace a potluck-style dinner where guests bring dishes. Laugh at the mess and enjoy the stories behind each contribution.
Type 2: The Helper
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition helps you identify what truly fills your cup. Give from a place of love, not obligation.
Example: If you’re exhausted from baking for others, consider inviting loved ones to a cookie-decorating gathering. Share the experience instead of carrying the burden alone.
Type 3: The Achiever
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition assures you that rest is productive. The season is for being, not just doing.
Example: Instead of hosting the flashiest party or checking off every holiday goal, spend an evening at home, reading holiday stories with your family or watching a favorite movie in pajamas.
Type 4: The Individualist
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition helps you embrace the full range of your emotions without withdrawing from others.
Example: Create a holiday tradition that reflects your unique perspective, such as crafting handmade ornaments or journaling about meaningful moments from the year. Then, share these moments with close friends or family.
Type 5: The Investigator
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition nudges you to value experiences over preparation. You don’t need all the answers to show up and engage.
Example: Attend a holiday gathering even if it feels overstimulating. Set a time limit for yourself but allow moments of connection, like sharing an interesting fact about a holiday tradition.
Type 6: The Loyalist
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition encourages you to lean into trust, even if the season feels uncertain or chaotic.
Example: If you’re worried about hosting, ask a friend or family member to help. Trust their support, and let go of the need to double-check every detail.
Type 7: The Enthusiast
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition encourages you to focus on quality over quantity—delighting in fewer, richer experiences.
Example: Instead of rushing to every event, choose one or two that mean the most to you, like caroling with your community or having a quiet evening decorating your tree with loved ones.
Type 8: The Challenger
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition shows you the strength in vulnerability and the beauty of letting others take care of you.
Example: Allow someone else to plan the family gathering this year. Focus on meaningful conversations with loved ones, letting your softer side shine through.
Type 9: The Peacemaker
Emotionally Secure Intuition: Your intuition reminds you to honor your preferences and step into the spotlight when needed.
Example: If you’ve always gone along with others’ holiday plans, suggest something meaningful to you this year, like a hike on Christmas morning or watching your favorite movie together.
Practical Tips for Honoring Intuition
1. Take Time to Reflect: Each morning, spend a few moments journaling or meditating to check in with your feelings.
2. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to plans or traditions that feel draining, even if it’s hard.
3. Reclaim Joy: Focus on what genuinely sparks joy for you—whether that’s quiet solitude or festive celebrations.
By following your intuition this holiday season, you can create moments that reflect who you truly are. Let this year be the one where you trust yourself fully, honor your emotional needs, and share your light with the world.
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